Monday, January 2, 2017

Cape Town

Cape Town 

We arrived to Cape Town Monday at around 1 pm. We rented a car. Matt had a hard time at first staying in the lines while driving on the left. Then we got to our hotel the protea Marriott wharf. We had an upgrade due to our honeymoon in a two bedroom suite with champagne , snacks, and a heart of candy on our bed. We went to the V&A waterfront which is a big area in a wharf w food and entertainment. We ate at the food market which was hands down amazing. All different kinds of food shops! Matt got a lamb burrito and I got calamari. I said I could live in there! Then we drove up to to blouberg beach which gives another view of table mountain. Spectacular. There were kite boarders everywhere which added to the beauty. We got a drink at the ons huisie which is an old beachfront restaurant. We drove back to camps bay- a trendy beach area which is reminiscent of miamis restaurant strip. There were "car guards " which seems to be common but what the guidebooks didn't warn about- basically panhandlers dressed in official vests saying they will watch your car if you pay. At first we were confused bc they looked official and do we need to pay for parking? We asked a local and they said parking was free. Ugh. So we then went to the codfather a seafood restaurant with a unique concept - no menu just pick the fresh seafood from the glass box and they cook it for you and give you a side and dipping sauce. They also had a rotating sushi tray where we picked out sushi. So we got two kinds of tiger prawns,  swordfish, and white fish. With wine the whole meal was like 50 bucks for us. Yay! We were exhausted when we got home from our extremely long day 

Day 2: woke up early to go on the move. Ate breakfast at our hotel, then walked about a mile to Truth coffee. Such a unique steampunk motif. Wish we would have eaten there. Then we went to the district six museum which was very sad. Basically a lot of black and colored people ( this means mixed race and is PC to say in South Africa) lived here and were forced to leave in 1966. Their homes and stores were then demolished to make way for a white community. How utterly horrible. Now there is a big movement for restitution and some have gotten land back or the equivalent of 1000$. There is a push to make it a national heritage site or else more things could be damaged. There were former residents in the museum talking. Very cool albeit heartbreaking. In the same vein we visited the Bo Kaap museum where it was a big Muslim neighborhood and people were also ousted from it but still people were able to live there. We walked through greenmarket square which reminded me of squares in Europe. We then drove a bit to a cute shops area with a tall old steel mill - at the top was the pot luck club which I was able to book for lunch ( sister restaurant of test kitchen which was booked 6 months out!) the food was phenomenal as well as the view. Everything we ate I almost licked the plate. They even gave us a cute honeymoon desert. The plan that day was to climb table mountain but it was closed due to high winds. The winds were out of this world. I don't think I've felt those for a long time. Glad I wore a dress...not. So we then drove to kirstenbosch gardens which were large and lovely at the base of T mountain with lots of trees and hills. Then to Hout Bay which was cute but not much there and the winds were burying cars in the sands. We had a cup of chowder and then high tailed it towards the city to try the most famous winery groot Constantia- very good reds. We had time to kill before dinner ( had went earlier to try to change the reservation but couldn't by much) so we wandered around the vineyards and took a nap in the grass. The restaurant Greenhouse at the cellars honebert was great. In a fabulously decorated house ( I find that a lot of these fancy restaurants feel like a rich house ). We went all out and got the 7 course tasting menu. Was superb and by many standards the service was great but for that caliber it was a bit lacking and towards the end the courses took a while. I've been sick and was almost falling asleep at the table so I felt bad about it. My favorite parts of the menu were the balsamic butter, the little towels that enlarged when put in water, the bread that sat and rose at the table, the salty seafood spoon w fish eggs, the cheeses served at different degrees of formations, the organic beef and the mango dessert. Also the wine pairings were good as well.Overall a good and packed day. 

Day 3: decided not to climb table mountain and instead start driving to the cape of good hope which was in a national park. The actual spot was just a plaque but the ocean water was a pure blue. We climbed to the cape point lighthouse and the winds were really blowing! It was a tough climb. We then headed to boulders beach. Ate at the lodge which was cheap seafood platters. Then went around to see the Penguins. You had to pay which was annoying. They were plentiful and very cute. Apparently mating season was just over so some fuzzy older chicks. They were jackass penguins but we didn't get to hear them bray. Then we drove to Simons town which was unremarkable, then to fish hoek - nice beach, just had a drink, then Muizenberg beach w the cute colored houses and walked around, finally to kalk bay for some cute shops ( bought a penguin print). We ate at harbor house kalk bay which was touristy but great views of the harbor complete with sea lions ( they were near the fishing pier too). Our waiter was very outgoing so he convinced us to do a bottle of their nice wine. We also did 12 giant oysters, then Matt had the kingflip fish and I had the Mozambique prawns . We had passion fruit and mango sorbet and coffee. All that plus tax and tip:80$! The wine alone would have cost that much in the US probably. I love the rand conversion here. Very nice views and great time and got back in time to pack

Day 4: got up early to head to the waterfront for Robbens island ferry. This is where political prisoners were kept including Nelson Mandela. The ferry was an hour and we saw seals, whales, and Dolphins. Once at the island we took a bus around- 230 people  still live there but not really any stores or even a school ( kids take boat to cape town). There are penguins that live there. We heard stories about prisoners such as the man who lived in solitude for 6 years. We then went to the actual prison which had been closed since 1991 and saw mandelas cell. The most moving and interesting part was that our guide was a former political prisoner. Jailed at age 24 for about 7 years and initially tortured it was crazy to hear his story even pointing out the bed that he slept on. It was crazy too even though the prison was for non white people only black people got even worse treatment including less food and no shoes. We met some interesting people on the boat including a flight attendant from Ireland and a bunch of doctors from northwestern. We then had to go to the rugby store as Matt hadddd to have a springbok team jersey. Luckily they had one left in his size and it was cheap! ( jersey for 18$ in the states =unheard of) we then hightailed it over to Devils peak brewery as I'm sure Matt wanted to try at least one brewery here. Food was good ( duck sliders and Caesar salad) and beers were good too. I love breweries that have good food. Something we can both enjoy! Interestingly they had a flier advertising a 3 day camp for home brewers. Matt was so interested bc usually these are for newbies but this was for the experienced and talked about food pairings, trouble shooting, and the business side of it. Wish we had that in the states for him! We then headed towards wine lands and started at Morganstar but they were closed early for a book signing. We then headed to verglegland where we had some great wines. The wineries are all on beautiful grounds. They close on the earlier side and I get the feeling they like to lock up fast. So we went to one last one rust en vrede which was very classy and they only let us do the signature tasting of their two best wines bc they said we didn't have time (15 mins). Honestly if they didn't babble about the wine and with such airs we would finish faster than all these people on their last pairings! I kind of enjoy hearing about the wines but really just want to taste and decide for myself - along w reading the lit provided. We then headed to cavalli which the owner has a horse fetish lol and is also an architect so she designed the place and named the wines after horse stuff ie Pink Pony. The wines were meh but the atmosphere was great. The grounds and stables were obviously designed by an architect very chic. Ha I love that while we were parking one of the guards gestured to Matt saying that he was speeding and his boss saw from the window. Matt's like , so I can't come in? And he's like no it's fine, so we were confused why he even brought it up as we were parking. Meh. Then we went to 96 winery road for dinner. It looked very friendly and is apparently where a lot of people in the wine industry dine. We got artichoke salad and broccoli soup and I got tagliatelle with fresh veggies and Matt had the duck and cherry pie. At this point I wasn't feeling well but wasn't sure why. I really didn't have much wine and didn't feel drunk but I felt very nauseous. I had to leave the building at one point. I made Matt hurry up and we got back to our room. We are staying at the Blaauweim house (b&b) super cute w friendly owners. I tried to go to sleep as we had shark diving in the AM. I could not do it and eventually had some severe vomiting and fever. It kept me up all night. We had to cancel shark diving but they are able to reschedule on Sunday. I was really sad bc we had to cancel our private winery driver. Wah. 

Day 5: fever stopped and I got some sleep. We had breakfast In the AM it was really good fruit but couldn't eat much. The owners had been worried about us as we had told them our plans and our car was still here. I took it slow in the morning. We drove out an hour to Betty's bay which has a penguin colony. They were very active. There was almost more than in boulders beach.  I also saw a hyrax. The drive was beautiful. We then drove a different way back and into stellenbosch. At this point even though I didn't feel like eating I felt hungry so we found this pizza place la romantica on the side of road. Everyone there was drinking and smoking- like do they eat? And why weren't they at work? We then went to some wine tastings. I had a few sips of Matt's. We went to Warwick where I fell in love w this wine Called trilogy. Some moms were letting their kids run around half naked and playing in fountains. I feel like European parenting is more lax and kids are allowed to annoy patrons. We then went to kanokop winery  (cannon motif) which was very regal. They let you walk around the wine production by yourself and over catwalks and such very cool. The wines were good- they win awards for their pinotage and they sell at binnys. The wine man was very nice and he talked about living in Cape Town and traveling around Africa. He waived our tasting fee. We met another couple from Chicago honeymooning. There was a cute little ( well mean and growly) Scottie dog that laid under our car tire. I feel like people here let their dogs run amok I'm always worried we will hit them ( the schnauzer at our guest house named Rafiki!!) we then went to morgenhof winery which was nice but unremarkable. I feel like these wineries are usually nicer than Napa ones in terms of decor, motifs , and grounds . And there are more of them. They are very cheap ( like 2-3 $ for a tasting) and you don't tip and they are easy to get to and not crowded. I think I like this better than Napa. We went back to the house and I still wasn't feeling up to going out to dinner. We used mr delivery a service I had read about in a magazine many years ago where the driver picks up food wherever you want including McDonald's. Matt got nandos a popular chicken place and I got some Chinese food ( it was just ok). It felt good to relax and we've been going to bed early 

Day 6: we were supposed to hire a private driver to take us to wineries but since I got sick I didn't feel like imbibing in wines so I told Matt I could drive. We tried to email to cancel the driver but he ended up showing up anyways ( check your email!) He actually ended up driving as we took our time and he also spit out a decent amount of wines. First though we got up early and made our way to table mountain. We were planning to go in the beginning of the week but it was closed due to winds which I guess is common. Another day it was super nice but the line to take the cable car up was two hours! Then another day it was completely cloudy. This day is was cloudy but not too bad. We had wanted to climb up but due to me not feeling great and also time constraints we decided to just get the car up. There was barely any parking up there. It was a very nice cable car but I was scared. Germans in it sang the whole way which was kind of annoying. The car was cool bc the floor rotated 360 so you saw everything. The people walking up looked miserable and on a hot day I'm sure it would be terrible. The top was cold and foggy and we couldn't see much but we got good views from the car. I also saw some rock hyrax up close who were very cute. We then came down and went to Clifton beach lots of locals. Matt was climbing around the rocks and got soaked by a big wave. So he had to wear my flip flops and then I couldn't change for the wineries and looked like a huge scrub. We went to meerlust first. Good wines and a 60s band kind of vibe. The wine lady was no nonsense and threw Matt's wine out after he had like one sip. Then we went to Jordan which is famous for its Chardonnay. Nice river view and yes the whites were good. Next we headed to spier which is very touristy and large. We didn't try wines there ( but I had a pinotage in Tanzania that was really nice) but had booked a big picnic basket ( filled w meats cheese bread olives salad etc). Yum. Since that was supposed to be Sunday we had to cancel tokara which I had been excited to try 😐. Then we went to Thelema which was the most crowded. Great reds and peacocks in their vineyard. The wine guy worked at Disney before for a year. Then was delaire graff- the most picturesque of the wineries w statues and art. The wines were just ok. Finally was rustenberg which was some little house thing and decent wines. We went to stellenbosch town and walked around. Cute town but really lacking in little shops. Their famous general store was pretty cool with a ton of weird items to buy including a pile of stinky fish. We went back home and then headed to terroir for dinner. Had heard good things. You order from a chalkboard. We had prawn risotto , Parma ham and fig salad then I had bbq Vietnamese fish and Matt had springbok. All very good especially for the price but nothing out of this world. It's crazy how long people dine. I guess that's all the patrons they get for the night. We sat down roughly when it opened around 7, were the first to leave at like 9. 

Day 7: sharks! What I'd been waiting for. I was nervous as the day we were supposed to go was pretty good so what if we didn't see any? The drive to gaansbai was also long - 2 hours. They had told us there were no early am boat trips and the earliest was ten am which was good bc we got to sleep but bad bc the whole day was now gone. (We have since found out that there was an early one!) we got there and had breakfast and watched a safety video. We got out on the big boat and it was only ten min ride until  we saw sharks! I took some pics but got pretty sea sick right away. I laid on the front of the boat. A lot of people were getting sick. We anchored for about 3 hours so I had to struggle through it. The first cage got the most action too bad we were last ( and they kind of stopped trying to use the hunk of fish and fake seal to lure them in at the end). In the cage I felt better ( as soon as I had gotten up to go I puked). The staff gave us little white bags and were really nice about taking them from us. Inside the cage it was hard to not stick your arms and toes outside the cage as the bars to hold on we're about two inches away. When one comes the staff yells down and you just hold your breath and go down. I couldn't go too far. We had 7 mm wetsuits and hoods and it was very cold. Only a 1-2 meter visual field. We sat in the cage for like 30 mins before we got out. Luckily then it was then only another 30 mins before we left. Overall we saw five sharks one of which was big like 4.2 meters. It could have been a bit more active but I can't really complain. It was also fate bc we met an older couple on a six month trip around the world and they are from Tampa. Ones nephew actually graduated from the gi fellowship I'm going to be doing a few years ago. They said they'd take us out on their sailboat once we move. Excited for new friends! We got back and I immediately felt better. We left and stopped at woolsworth which is like mark and Spencer's I love that food mart. we then drove back. We rested for a bit then went to Bens on the beach restaurant in Strand. Very nice beach area. The restaurant was a bit weird like a diner and served all kinds of food like Greek food steaks and fish. Ironically our house hosts were eating their too. We watched a whole scene unfold from the window of this probably mentally ill man who was yelling at everyone and kept just blindly walking into the street. I believe the restaurant called the police. One family eating ice cream was very unbothered by him until he face planted onto the daughter on the bench. We then got some big ice cream cones and ate them on the beach. Great night.

Monday: we woke up and had a leisurely breakfast and left for our Johannesburg flight . I will really miss the hosts Joanne and Johan at the House and their dog Rafiki. They were great! And their fruit platters were great. Our flight was fine although it descended really fast and scared me. We weren't able to get first class this time. We went to our hotel the protea Tambo right next to the airport. The pool there had been overrun by algae but the chairs were nice. I used their lovely gym. The restaurant wasn't half bad. I would have liked to see Johannesburg but by the the time we got in it was afternoon and the city is like 20 miles away. They also gave us airplane shaped cheese and fruit . You could see the airport from the window but it was loud. The shower  was Next to the bed. Craziness 

Tues: got picked up for safari at 8 am. Nik is our guide: from here, about 60 years old has been doing this for 38 years but still has enthusiasm. Carmel was also on our trip- older lady from Australian taking the tour while her husband works in Johannesburg. The drive was roughly 6 hours which was long for sure. We got in Kruger park and immediately saw a leopard walking around. Finally number five of the big five ( elephant leopard lion rhino buffalo- named this way bc they were the hardest to hunt). Lucky bc we almost went right instead of left. We also saw hippos walking, baby giraffe, and a bunch of lions sunning themselves next to the road. We had lunch near water w hippos- pretty good. Our camp is called Skukuza and it is nice- little huts but w Windows , air con , etc. we even saw pumba family rooting around our place. We went on an afternoon drive then ate around seven- had steak it was nice. Lol our guide had his own bottle of wine. 

Weds: up to leave at 530 I was like ugh. But it was ok. We immediately saw hyena. Then 25! Wild African dogs playing by the road- rare as only 2-300 in park. Eventually we saw a ton of elephants and white rhino by Side of the road. 5 rhino are poached here daily I hope they don't find that pack. We saw a mongoose. Lots of dead animals including a buffalo that lions had killed. We saw more lions. We ate breakfast on a river and headed back for siesta (after seeing a leopard on the run). We then went on a night drive that started in the late afternoon. This one lady made a fuss that the driver was too slow (only park rangers can do the night drives). We saw some elephant. At night they use rudimentary spotlights to see stuff. French kid kept shining it all over the place. We saw wild dogs, hyena in pool w hippo, ?bushbaby, scrub hare and I saw a tail that looked like a lemur but I guess was a genet.overall did not see a lot but cool experience and eerie

Thursday: got going again at 530 am. Not much seen- elephant, some lions somewhat in the distance, closer hippo, that hyena swimming w the hippo again. We had breakfast at our place.  Carmel left :( I grew to like her a lot. Funny how we will never be in touch again! We then drove south to our new camp- hoping to see cheetah. Saw a lot more elephants and it is more green over here. Sadly it is supposed to be rainy but it is a drought and rivers are sandy and we've seen some dead animals- hippo are especially hard hit bc they eat like 40 lbs of greens a day. :( the camp was called berg en dal and it was smaller but nice ( the little cabins were bigger). Ate lunch with a more limited menu than before. Then we drove around more- more rhinos and elephants and a big hornbill eating a snake but not much more. Had dinner at the same restaurant then went to bed 

Friday: went driving at 530 am again- didn't really see much except rhinos. Ate breakfast near a nice river w a hippo. Then left the park- saw a dung beetle rolling dung in the road. We ate lunch at a rest stop- had nandos which is chicken fast food but I always thought it was English (it is really from here!) some farmer there had pet rhinos and they had had their horns removed to prevent poaching. We got to the airport early- very very sad to leave and dreading the 17 hour nonstop ( preceded by 3 hour safari, 6 hour drive and followed by two hour plane ride from Atlanta, hour drive to parents house and then 3 hours to Indy) but it will be good to go home! 


Update: Our flight ended up being canceled, and after rebooking a flight, that leg was cancelled, leaving us to go to Amsterdam, then Minneapolis, then Chicago, then Indy :( We got the worse seats too (middle) and were incredibly tired and crabby. At least we got 1st class to Chicago and were able to sleep in the MN lounge, although that flight's AC was broken and was incredibly loud.


South Africa restaurants 

The restaurant at Newton Johnson on the 19 at 7 pm- had to cancel due to sickness
Terroir dinner 7 pm feb 20
Potluck on 16 at 1230 for lunch 
Greenhouse on 16 at 815 for dinner 
Tokara 1230 feb 20
Bens on the beach 1930 on feb 21
Picnic spier feb 21
Codfather feb 15 or 17 7 pm
Harbor house feb 15 or 17 830 or 6 - ended up at the Kalk Bay one
Boulder beach lodge feb 17 1230
96 winery road feb 18 800
Devils tap feb 18 1330

Robbem island feb 18 930

Dar Es Salaam

Dar Es Salaam:


 We left Arusha late at night to go to the tiny airport to fly to Dar. I was sad to leave Arusha knowing that our time there was over but also happy to return to a more normal way of living for us. We flew fastjet only 45 min flight but I was nervous bc I didn't trust it. We did land without incident though :) we saw Dar in the dark and immediately could tell it was more built up. Still some African influence and markets and what not but proper roads and taller buildings. There were even giant coach bus daladalas. Upon arriving to our hotel they started looking in the engine and around the car w a flashlight. I asked Matt what they were doing and he loudly whispered "bombs!". Ohhh. The Ramada we stayed at was right on the beach and the room was just oh so nice. Full blast AC, wifi, and Giant plush king bed. I didn't even care if there was only a view of the car park. Poor Matt vomited in the night and the next day just felt off. We struggled at different times during Tanzania with GI stuff but was worried about him. The pool was deserted in the morning and the beach was right out front with a big shallow area due to the tide. There was a ton of trash that washed up and a big jellyfish so no real swimming for me. The pool started filling up a bit after noon but not as crowded as it was Sunday. We lounged around. There was a wedding later. Kind of annoying as they were prepping for it, nailing stuff down. The actual wedding was interesting to say the least. The bride was gorgeous in her white gown, the bridesmaids in matching dresses, but the bride walked in with a clump of a few bridesmaids and guests kind of trickled in later. Literally half way through the ceremony  two more maids showed up! They were all sitting in the spectator seats just playing on their phones. Then the maid of honor went back into the hotel! Another maid came as they were kissing at the end and the MOH didn't come back til the pictures! And guests were still rolling in and another bride was taking pics in the first brides reception area. Then the alter floated away in the tide ! Very fascinating to watch. We decided to forgo ever going to Dar town as it was a 45 min cab ride and just a big city w markets. There was literally no other places to eat and I felt our resort was lacking. The food was pretty lackluster and expensive, service overall was bad and the other restaurants there were closed. It was frustrating at times but whatever. We left later on Sunday to go to our airport hotel. The drive was long and we got almost stuck in these giant puddles as we made our way through the dirt roads at the end. I didn't realize we were staying in the local part of town but Matt read good reviews of the airport hotel( we had a six am flight so had to stay close). I was stil a bit nervous. Then when we got there the lady said they overbooked us so she'll take us to another hotel. I was furious bc it was already late and we needed to get to bed, I was hungry , and who knows how safe or nice it was over there. The other airport hotels were like shanties. But what could we do? Somehow she convinced the cab driver to drive all of us the whole time on the phone in Kiswahili so I couldn't understand but sounding like she kept calling people to find an empty room so she didn't even have a place in mind! I was even more mad. We even went one way and had to double up back. The place we ended up looked safe but pretty grungy . No frills at all. And we had to pay the same price ! We ate bad food In a rundown restaurant paying outrageous prices for it and waiting a long time. At least the bad wine was 5$ for a bottle. It was so loud we barely slept and had to leave at 330 am. We had upgraded to first class ( annoyed at Matt at the time sayin we didn't need that but then grateful as we enjoyed the 70s lounge w AC and food). The joburg lounge was super nice and that flight to cape town had layflat seats so spent the whole flight playing w them and loving on the amenities. If only we had those on the 17 hour flight back to America! We landed in Cape Town without a hitch and since it was 1 pm we could enjoy the great day! 

Friday, February 12, 2016

Last day in Arusha

So here we are... Our time volunteering is over. Bittersweet for sure. Quite the eye opening experience. Glad to have done it. Looking forward to our vacation and then home. Miss family friends pets and American food for sure! Here are some parting words:

Things I won't miss

- smells: occasionally a whiff from a wood burning fire but mostly constant body odor, rotting veggies and general bad smells. There is one pharmacy that always smells so foul. I was wondering what the hospital smelled like and then I realized anatomy lab! They wash the floors w formeldehyde. I'm so sensitive to smells!

- power going out: and water for that matter. The inconvenient times it went out : at the supermarket, during dinner, at work, during a shower, during a movie, during a workout, the list goes on


- no gym: working out is integrated into my life and now Matt's . No gyms here really. I did a few home work outs but mostly a lot of walking. I miss crossfit

- the noise and busy-ness: people here are crowded and always talking, even at home w construction and what not. I like reading and peacefulness there wasn't much here.

- pollution: and dust. Asthma and allergies out of control

- being the center of attention: no blending in here. We were constantly being stared at, talked to, someone trying to get us to buy stuff

- the lack of treatment for animals: I didn't like seeing all the hungry strays

- the sickness : stuff that is preventable in the US

- the traffic: almost died every day! Would it kill someone to put a traffic light up or a stop sign here and there

- hand washing laundry: so much effort and in dirty water then it rains and then the line falls down.. We really have it easy at home

- the risks: between traffic and work risks ( infectious diseases, drawing blood on HIV + people) and random mosquito borne diseases , rabies it made me worry

-poverty: I see a lot in the US but without government aid sometimes it felt hopeless here

The cultural manner differences: from shoving off the daladala to sitting super close to me and not having sense of personal space to treating animals without respect

Things I may or may not miss

-the daladalas: so exciting and convenient but so cramped and broken down

- the food: some was tasty and I liked the fresh tropical fruit, the giant avocados, the fresh cut French fries , the chai tea, the chili sauce ( pili pili ) even the instant coffee was good but a lot was repetitive and bland and not something I will look for in the US .

- the wildlife: I obviously loved all the safari animals, but the bats, snakes, mice, bugs I could live without


The things I will miss

Safety: terrorism and violence is non existent here. No one has guns except military and they are old and rusty. The worst people would do is pick pocket you but no one even tried w me. I felt very safe sleeping at night even tho everyone knew where we lived. People just don't do horrible crimes here. Felt safer than Chicago or Indy

Cheapness: everything was less money here except safaris . Food and drink was cheap. I even got a massage for 25$ . Nails done for less than 2$! I like cheap for sure

The people! : yes there were some annoying ones buy my stuff! But mostly everyone was super friendly , welcoming, and wanted to say hello. They are very proud of their country. They smiled a lot. The staff at the hospital grew on me, the people in our house were great, and I made some foreign friends. The people here are not killing each other they are helping each other.

The sense of community: as I said even in poverty they aren't hurting each other they seem to help in any way. From giving an old lady some money for the bus, to pushing cars out of mud, they were there for each other. They especially helped other's kids. Kids usually take the daladala to school by themselves and people on the bus would sit them on their laps- even the daladala money collector would help them cross the street or carry them off the bus when they got off. I saw a lady hand a random kid a lollipop through the open bus window. Today I saw a man carry a scared kid over a puddle then go about his day. I loved it!

THE KIDS: cutest kids I've ever seen. Either staring w soulful brown eyes or smiling a huge smile they were so adorable. They always said Hi, how are you, and good morning ( even at night haha) and would yell it til they got a response then they were so happy. I loved hearing them belt out songs at the top of their lungs in the morning at school. I loved our neighbor kids who glared longingly at
the pool. I loved Matt's kids I met.

The environment: from the cool animals to the tropical plants to the weather ( when it wasn't raining it was sunny w a cool breeze

The medicine : such a change of pace from the hypertension and COPD that I see everyday back home. Now getting to learn about a lot of tropical diseases and treatments and the way culture figures into the medical treatment here

Helping others; I guess I kind of do this in my job but here I was purely around to do this!

The variety of things to do: restaurants, safaris, hiking , and so much more if we had time

The expat community: even though I wasn't really part of it I enjoyed watching it at the restaurants including some of the same people I saw every day while they were conducting business at restaurants etc

The free time: after work didn't have to worry about doing much- no crossfit no Cooking no chores really. I did a lot of reading since everything else was usually not available

The "newness": so much to explore , so much stimulation of the mind!

Hanging out w the love of my life: we never get to spend every day w each other as Matt travels for work and I sometimes work weekends. Matt put 110% in here and I was very proud of how hard he worked! Not going to lie sometimes this wasn't a walk in the park as we both have tempers, want to be right etc and with our environment here some crabbiness and bickering occurred but overall we bonded sharing this experience of a lifetime and will treasure it forever!

This was life changing and eye opening and Tanzania will have a soft spot in my heart. Til we meet again!

I will try to keep writing about the rest of our travels as i want to start journaling my traveling. Thanks for reading and for all those who donated - I know the kids were appreciative! Xoxo







Thursday, February 11, 2016

Random thoughts

some random thoughts before I write the last day post tomorrow :(

- again today I helped out a lot in the hospital.. Drawing blood, checking blood sugars and blood pressures, writing notes, powwowing w my attending about plans, teaching Med students, doing discharges. If only I had another month and also more grasp of the language

- there was a major storm yesterday night and I worried about the cats. Turns out one of the kittens was hiding behind our tv! It was so little and cute and scared. I'm sure going to worry about them when I leave

- Matt is trying to teach his kids some manners/ good behavior. They get away w it bc everyone is busy trying to make the actual place function. They trash their toys and in general run amok. Matt tried to show one the right way to pick up a cat after a kid picked it up by the ear! One also tried to give Matt their nasty used tissue, one threw a spider on a volunteer after she said she was scared, and Matt won't answer them if they call to him as Mzungu as they know his name.

- saw some kids throwing rocks at a dog . Boo!

- Allen about Americans " they love all the little animals but they hate the bugs!"

- everyone's teeth here are completely brown and destroyed . I looked it up- apparently from too much fluoride in the water. Didn't know this was a thing but sad, they should fix this

- saw a kid late to school- teacher whacked him w a ruler. Didn't know this was still a thing. Sad. Guess it is learned from the German schooling system

- so much construction at our House. Annoying bc they tear down the clothesline . We got home early one day and Matt said one guy was outside naked spraying himself w a hose haha

- I love the daladala names. Wanted to pay someone to decorate one for me. Besides Tony and Disneyland, there is The Sniper, Rick Ross, Crime Scene , Faithbook ( decorated like facebook), work hard pray hard and my favorite Thanks Jesus ( is this for real or to be said in a sarcastic tone?)

- noticed whenever we buy something the person is then blowing the money quickly haha. Bought a tingatinga painting ( special painting w childlike animals) and five minutes later the man was at he next door bar we went to

- also love the shirt sayings, esp when worn by an old woman who doesn't speak English , "this just got real awkward", "hit it pimp it, "Spartan cheerleading, "y'all come back now y'all hear". Have seen Chicago park district shirt, IU, Marquette dentistry, and a ton of different 5k shirts. There is a large market that sells literal tons of used clothes - wondering how US donated clothes end up getting sold

- people buy their "cell plans" by purchasing frequent  cards that have a code. I got a one week unlimited but apparently after going to 10 stores they aren't selling them this week.

- since some people live without power, there is a big kiosk at the market with like a thousand outlets where u can pay to charge your phone for the day...Matt says this must be very slow. I find it fascinating that in these countries everyone seems to have a phone or most, two, including a smart phone ( apparently one company better for Internet one better for SMS). I have two phones one I bought here and my iPhone.

- there are little tables on the sidewalk w "tech people " with screwdrivers and such that can apparently fix your phone

- you can get your nails done on the street for 2$ including designs!

- a 16 oz bottle of Coke here costs like 35 cents!

- diet things are hard to find ( Diet Coke like 20 cents more) I guess bc most people need the calories!

- I have seen more people w albinism than I have noticed before in the US ( maybe just bias?) Allen said they used to disappear and everyone wondered why. Well as I have read, they are killed or limbs  chopped off and used as a remedy by witch doctors. Allen says this no longer happens but I just read an article where it is still bad here ( Despite outlawing witch doctors last year) and a lot were just
moved over to Kenya.

- no one has even tried to pick pocket my stuff. That being said I'm still careful But going about every day life I can't be ubermilitant

- Allen says when you are invited to a wedding here you first get an invite asking you to pay a fee ( 25$ per couple going rate) then you pay and get an invite and are still expected to bring a gift. And you basically have to go as it is part of the culture

- marina went to a Muslim wedding here and after the short ceremony that she Wasn't allowed to attend the girls were all separated from the guys. Everyone ate then the bride came out and everyone Carried gifts to her- I'm talking about a fridge, bed, washer etc! Then it was over!


Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Last week

sadly, the last week here. Which I guess is bittersweet. Had a great experience but definitely were out of our comfort zone and got comfortable with being uncomfortable.

A lot of the same this week, saw Matt and his kid again at St Elizabeth's. He is doing great with the kids considering he has never really taken care of kids before. He bought her a snack on the way home. He told me a funny story of how they left him in a room with the naked twin babies in a tub and they both immediately started wailing but he figured out what to do to bathe them and calm them down.

Actually today, I had much more responsibility at the hospital. My attending was not feeling well and basically shoved the charts at me and said "here you do it". At first I thought she was kidding but when she didn't go into the wards with me I realized I was in charge. Thankfully the first patient's son spoke English, as did the nurse, but not enough for me to explain different things like why the kidney function was off. As I suspected, I was much better prepared to do this a few weeks in when I learned their shorthand, systems, what meds they used, saw more of the endemic diseases etc. so I bumbled through with the help of some Med students ( all people at that level are fairly fluent in English and it seems like English is the medical language here - charts written in it etc, so good for me). The attending eventually came but basically was like my translator. I even did two discharges myself. Great with two more days left haha I wish I had more time. I drew a little boys blood and he screamed and I got some on the sheets ( that they have to wash by hand has anyone seen American horror story hotel? That laundry lady? Haha). We were perplexed by his abdominal pain etc the last few days and his mom today was like oh by the way he has sickle cell disease. Well that's the culprit! It's interesting how these things come up. I'd say the unique things about the patients here is everyone is grateful, no ones whining, no one is even carrying on about pain - which in the US is sometimes legit sometimes not ( and all they get is ibuprofen. Funny story Matt's coworker Allen was complaining about a headache and Matt gave him some ibuprofen and he thought it was a miracle drug...if only this was the case in the US), everyone is respectful to doctors and don't refer to the female ones as "nurse" , and family is ALWAYS present ( nothing worse in the US when you have a confused patient and no one answers the phone). Obesity is rare-ish so it is easy to get a good physical exam and draw blood. It's crazy how different the diseases  are here- Africans are succumbing to these infections that with better sanitation,water, education would not happen while in the US they are succumbing to ones of excess and vices- food, drugs, alcohol. Drug use besides marijuana is unheard of here and alcoholism is fairly rare. So both counties have some work to do.

Speaking of medicine, Nelsons girlfriend from Rwanda cornered me as she found out I'm a doctor. As English is her 4th language it was hard to get all of it out leading to her showing me prescriptions written in French from the hospital. The whole issue ended up being she is scared she'll never have a baby. the rest of the story was interesting from a cultural perspective about marriage and the importance of babies as opposed to career. I think I explained some helpful things to her in the end. Matt was outside as the guys had barbecued meat to eat by a bonfire which "goes good with konyagi (gin) " according to Nelson. Needless to say the boy convo outside got spicy and I don't think Nelson is really thinking about creating babies haha. That brings me to the relationship dynamic here - even though she came to visit he does his own thing and she is mostly left to the couch ( listening to the same song over and over and taking selfies). The guys tend to socialize and go out with the guys and the women are left behind. One time she was on the couch and he was outside on a chair texting and playing on his phone for hours. Apparently it is common to have "little houses" or other side relationships which I think is the case as he is always out when she is back home.

Another roach in our bedroom. I got it quickly w a shoe. Maybe came through the window? Tanzanians, interestingly enough, don't really believe in screens as the dust collected is harmful. I wish this wasn't the logic. Now we need to close the window and it is so stuffy! Ugh all night I wake up thinking of bugs crawling on me. At least we found a hedgehog meandering in the backyard - I can't get enough of those!

Starting to pack up.. We overestimated some things like too much sunscreen etc so worried about making the low weight limit for the flight to Dar. Matt is putting the kibosh on more souvenirs so barely bought anything! Maybe in South Africa. I know I'll be wearing like 3 sweatshirts and loading my pockets with heavy things for this flight...sigh!

Monday, February 8, 2016

Last weekend here

sad to see our last weekend come and go. Saturday we drove to Mount Kilimanjaro. Very beautiful over there but farther than I thought (like 2.5 hours). We could see the mountain from the distance but  later it disappeared into the clouds. We first toured a cave- very cool history. In the 1700s the chagga ( mountain people) and Maasai were constantly battling over land bc of a drought. So there was a lot of war and killing. The Chagga built elaborate cave systems to hide... With interesting methods to trick the Maasai . They also would hide and use a long stick "skull crusher" to kill them when they came in ( side note I saw this European girl carrying one as she walked in the street the other day...guess no one will mug her). The Maasai would try to smoke them out w chili oil but the chagga would block it w cow hides. The Maasai would drop rocks in their vent holes to locate the caves; the Chaggas would hold water buckets under so they falsely thought it was just a well.

After that we walked down lots of stairs to a beautiful waterfall. Matt and Bryson crossed the river and were gone a long time. Turns out Matt was like bouldering up to get near the waterfall. He said it was really hard and slippery. I tried but didn't get far. It was pretty strenuous and dangerous. I fell and   Almost broke something haha. The climb back up the the stairs was brutal. After that we went to Kilimanjaro and saw people coming back from climbs and saw the start point etc. I had total FOMO ( fear of missing out). Climbing mount kili has always been on my bucket list. Soon I hope! Some  old man lead us through a field telling us we'd have a good view of the mountain. Turns out he was wrong. We did see a liver  in a glass box outside a  house (??). When people say " this is Africa " I now know they mean you'll never know what you'll see. Like a lady wrapping a live chicken in a shawl and carrying it in her purse, the goat emerging from a car trunk, or the flamingo just chilling waiting for the bus w the locals.

Yesterday was probably the only free lazy day we will have on this journey. We left for town around 1030 am then walked for lunch at Fifis. I had couscous salad and some beet juice it felt so good. Over here you can pay a pool fee at fancy hotels so we walked to mount meru hotel I heard they had a good pool. Which they did although some big Dutch group was taking all the chairs. So we laid on towels in the grass, had a cocktail and as soon as they left I grabbed the chairs ( so competitive). At one point I felt like the " pool bouncer " let a ton of locals in probably for a kickback which was annoying as they were very rowdy haha. I like my pools to be tranquil ( this seems to never happen between kids and drunks) . Of course then it looked like rain so we taxied back to the main restaurant area and had some chips and dip while we waited to get the dala home. Then later Matt watched the Chelsea game ( big fans thank gosh in our house including the "mama"/cook)

Later that night we had some excitement. Part of the fun of this trip is experiencing new things w my partner aka Matt and this trip I learned his insane fear/disgust of cockroaches or as we call them, "papa roaches". There is a nasty bathroom in the room where we keep our clothes and Matt is fixated on it because he saw some there. He literally checks on them every day with his flashlight and tries to block the door so they can't come in. I personally would rather not think about it. But he loves talking about what they are doing. Sometimes I tell him fake facts like if you step on them their eggs will pop out and make tons of babies. His eyes get real wide haha. He even used my suitcase to try to barricade our bedroom! Well last night as we  were getting ready for bed he started screaming " there's one on the wall"!! Sure enough there was and it flew towards his bed ("they can fly?!" he screamed.). I don't think I've ever seen him this unraveled. So I guess
I was then in charge of killing it ( I felt bad but not bad enough) even though they give me the heebies too. Amid Matt's pleas of he'll give me anything I want if I kill it haha ( should have taken time to think about what to ask for I really think he would have given me anything at this point- free pass on clothes shopping?) I kept trying to get it but it was hiding and flying and I was screaming and almost fell off the bunk bed ... But it finally sucombed. And we still didn't sleep well. I keep hearing noises like little scurrying ( not to mention all the weird noises outside of animals I can't place). And the other night as I sat outside feeding the cat bats were like dive bombing my head so I had to go in. This AM I brought my plate to the kitchen and a black mouse rat popped his head over from behind the counter ( I have to admit he was cute). And on our walk a dead hedgehog roadkill. I think I might have had enough of nature at this point and am ready for a hotel!



Friday, February 5, 2016

Happenings this week

there always seems like a decent amount of things to blog about, considering this country is totally different for us. Everything is going fairly well, hope it stays that way. In my spare time besides exploring and eating or doing laundry haha I have been planning our South Africa trip- such a popular time and thus a lot of things have to be booked far in advance leading to a few disappointments. There is so much to see and drink and eat there. It is going to be a totally different experience than this one starting with a big bed ( I've noticed mattresses here are just pieces of foam) and a stand up shower. Oh and wine. Obviously one wants to be more comfortable but I am glad to experience "real living" here and actually somewhat jive into the community. That is always the best way to experience a country. These people flying in for the pre planned safari circuit are having a totally different time than us. Which is fine as we are here for a reason and their money helps this country ( an all inclusive night in the ngorongoro lodge is like 1500$!) . We do hope to come back as more of tourists and already have an itinery set ( climb mt kili as that is on my bucket list, Serengeti safari, then Zanzibar island) and would love our families to experience this amazing country.

Meanwhile in the hospital: I've gotten into my groove of working w two other physicians. The way of medicine here is just different ( like learning Italian after already speaking French) but I'm picking up on it. They use so many different antibiotics that we "retired" in the US. Some of the things I don't agree with ( using an old antipsychotic that requires close blood monitoring but then not doing the blood monitoring) so it is hard sometimes but overall they work w what they have (still marveling on how limited it is) and for the most part the patients get better at least from what I can see so something is working. It would be interesting to see the bigger university hospital as we have to refer some complicated patients there ( I'm used to being the best hospital as IU is the last stop for people from around a decent chunk of the Midwest). I've seen some more "cool" cases such as toxoplasmosis of the brain , "tropical spleen", Brucella (had to look this one up as I haven't heard of it since Med school basically bacteria found in raw beef and unpasteurized milk and only found in US in certain areas in the NW), typhoid,and a lot more malaria. Tb, and  HIV. Sad case of a 29 yr old who came in short of breath , whole left lung whited out w fluid, tried to tap but grossly bloody. Has ascites (belly fluid) tapped some off bloody too. This suggests malignancy - lung? Pt so young! But family is wanting her discharged bc they need to find money for a CT scan (150$ here which is a lot even for Americans). I don't know how they would afford treatment even though my gut tells me it is pointless, but I hope they are able to at least take her to the big hospital to evaluate further. Another pt died, it seems to happen so suddenly here and I never see it coming. Another sad case of a 13 yr old boy w HIV ( I guess they consider anyone at that age "adult") who came in basically unresponsive - diagnosis cryptococcal meningitis and malaria. I thought he was done for. He was so underweight and just looked so angelic. I brushed the flies off his face bc he couldn't and I wanted him to at least die w some dignity as it was unsettling. Mom ( well aunt as his parents died of the disease) was trying to find money to pay for the Iv meds ( I was thinking of some way to slip her money if she couldn't bc it was just all so sad but she got some from relatives). Anyways, the meds took hold and worked! Kids are fighters. Every day he looked better and better ( even went nuts when we had to draw his blood) and was discharged! Happy ending for at least now ( the sad reality is he probably won't live long w HIV and apparently not really taking his meds- in the US the adult would be reported and taken to court I'm sure). Another pt today keeps spitting out her meds and is not getting much better ( we suspect she has some mental illness as she keeps mumbling to herself but for me I would want to investigate further to make sure that is not just an effect of the bacterial infection but docs just give her meds to be quiet ) and now her family wants to take her home so she can get prayed over. In the US we would then question the sanity of the relative but here this is definitely cultural. Witch doctors are also common here and definitely for the Maasai most have seen the witch doctor before coming to the hospital ( some of the remedies make sense like how they found the quinine tree which can cure malaria but most is not going to cure these illnesses)

I told Matt he should blog at least once a week haha so he can tell you more but basically still dividing his time between the orphanage and the villages. They acted quickly w some of the money our family donated and bought all that food and meds and delivered them to the village. A village elder made a speech about how grateful they were and 30 families ( a family is a pretty large unit here bc it doesn't just mean immediate relation) that had kids deemed to be high risk for starvation  were given the food ( if they don't have food they not only starve but don't take their HIV meds). And the antibiotics were given to 100 kids as well. Each family rep thanked Matt individually. I bet that meant a lot. The goal is to one day be Able to give families means to be more independent like a chicken coop so they can sell eggs ( tried giving each a rooster and chicken before but some families just ate them right away!) but this planning takes time and hopefully something we can help w in the future.


Kind of like intertwining reality shows, Matt and a little girl showed up at my hospital yesterday! He takes the kids for their HIV check ups. They said she would know what to do but she didn't really and I couldn't help too much bc I'm not working in that clinic. But luckily a "mama" saw our situation and pointed her the right way. It was a lot of waiting and of course our machine was broken so she will have to come back and get her counts checked. A lot of inefficiency for sure . Matt had come at one time before and the doctor was "busy" . He also took a little girl to the dentist to consult for pulling her teeth, so then she had to come back, but had a fever so they couldn't pull it. She missed two days of school and so much time due to this. Such is life here I guess.

In other experiences this week I went to the Tamzanite museum. Tamzanite is only found here by Kilimanjaro so it is 1000x more rare than diamonds. And apparently limited supply so it will disappear soon. I heard about the mining process and they say it's ethical but would have to look into it more if ever bought one. They are beautiful blue, violet, and burgundy stones but obviously $$. Maybe one day.

And the other cool thing: I had a dress made for me. ( to matts chagrin- " why do you need to buy more clothes??" Maybe after another few years of marriage he will stop asking this haha) I partly wanted the dress and partly wanted the experience. It was definitely that. I went into a section of town w fabrics near the central market. Of course they were on me likes sharks to chum in two seconds. I was a bit nervous the whole time, w my bag and being taken around in a crowded place. But went to a shop and spent time picking out the perfect fabric and bargaining a lot. Then talking to the seamstress and picking out a dress from a catalogue ( hard to tell as all the ladies in it were definitely not models nor were the photos taken professionally) and picked one for her to make w a matching bag. And I have enough material left over for a headscarf if I wanted. The dress is beautiful but a little hard to get in and out of as it has a side zipper. The whole process was fun but somewhat tarnished  as everyone wanted a piece of the pie- as soon as I showed up back to the shop instantly the 3 men that had been leading me around showed up out of the woodwork ( one who brought me to the shop, one who brought me to the fabric store and tried to get me to another market one that showed me his souvenir shop- shoddy goods he was trying to sell for an insane amount of money) . I firmly told the one I didn't want to go back to his shop and pay 20$ for a smal wood giraffe, I told the other I didn't want to go to the market (he's like well give me a tip like you promised. I did? And for what?) and the other wanted a tip too and was like demanding it ( I was like I just gave your shop business! And they probably charged me more ). So I basically brushed them off and the other randoms in the street. Seriously the hustling is the most annoying part. I get it, they see a Mzungu and  think they are an atm but it gets tiring as someone who likes to walk and not be bothered . My first day wandering one guy followed me into the museum and literally would not leave for an hour. Blech. So now I'm kind of rude ( I'm sure some people say hi and ask how I am to be nice and it is sad I have to ignore them ) but it cuts down on the following and hustling.

Tonight we are getting dinner, tomorrow Kilimanjaro I think just to go to the park, and Sunday our first day of "nothing". Change wait